A Generational Craving

400 days without alcohol

My dynamic with alcohol is one of guilt, mitigation and self-betterment. I come from a long line of abusers and have perpetuated its hurt myself while rejecting the idea that family members' alcoholism is my cross to bare. I will genuinely enjoy a scotch with my wife or a rye and water with a meal out - that first sip sends waves of heat to every nerve endings, satisfying a generational craving.

One beer and I wake up depressed. I remained ignorant in its connection for two and a half decades. With this awareness, I garnered intention. I could choose a pint with its social advantages, accept the impending thoughts and attempt to detach from the mental weight. Whatever emotion would arise the following day, I could sit with slightly easier knowing that it was induced.

Nonetheless, the lingering blues encouraged regular attempts at self-restraint.

There actually isn't any proof of Hemingway's over-romanticized quote that one should "write drunk" and "edit sober" as it is attributed. By writing sober, I touch on confidence. By creating in the absence of substances a clarity comes through. I subscribe to the mystery of the process and experience it deeper, as if temperance is a prerequisite. This isn't to say masterpieces haven't been created under the influence of the most consuming of substances, just that mine won't be.

I just passed 400 days alcohol-free. It isn't the longest I've gone without but its the closest I've felt to permanence. In fighting the tendency to over-examine myself as my 40th birthday draws near, this sits alone.

I would like to lessen its importance.

another shot with little jack films

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